Useful Contacts & Helplines
No matter what your life circumstances, you deserve the help you want. As you search for this within the different resources shared here, or indeed not given above, remember you are your own best expert and listen to your body. If you don’t feel a particular resource is helpful for you it is okay to move away from it. Keep searching until you find the help that is right for you.
Respect phoneline (help for domestic violence perpetrators)
www.respectphoneline.org.uk
Tel: 0808 802 4040 (10 a.m. to 5.00 p.m. Mon–Fri)Respect men’s advice line (male victims of domestic abuse)
www.mensadviceline.org.uk
Tel: 0808 801 0327
Respond (supporting people with learning disabilities and autistic people who have experienced abuse, violence or trauma)
www.respond.org.uk
Tel: 020 7383 0700Revenge porn helpline
www.revengepornhelpline.org.uk
Tel: 0345 6000 459 (10 a.m. to 4.00 p.m. Mon–Fri)Samaritans (free 24-hour helpline)
www.samaritans.org
Tel: 116 123Shelter (homeless due to abuse)
www.shelter.org.ukStand Alone (adults estranged from family)
www.standalone.org.ukThe Freedom Programme (domestic violence programme for all people)
www.freedomprogramme.co.uk
Tel: 01942 262 270The Mix (free information and support for under-25s in the UK)
www.themix.org.uk
Tel: 0808 808 4994Victim Support (people affected by crime)
www.victimsupport.org.uk
Tel: 0808 1689 111Women’s Aid (national charity for women and children)
www.womensaid.org.uk
Tel: 0808 2000 247
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)
www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk
Tel: 0800 917 7650
DViP (Domestic Violence Intervention Project)
www.dvip.org
Tel: 0207 633 9181Galop (LGBT+ anti-abuse charity)
www.galop.org.uk
National Helpline for LGBT+ Victims and Survivors of Abuse and Violence
Tel: 0800 999 5428 (run by Galop)Hourglass (elder abuse)
www.wearehourglass.org
Tel: 0808 808 8141Karma Nirvana (honour-based abuse in the UK)
www.karmanirvana.org.uk
Tel: 0800 5999 247ManKind Initiative (male victims of domestic abuse)
www.mankind.org.uk
Tel: 0808 800 1170NAPAC (National Association for People Abused in Childhood)
www.napac.org.uk
Tel: 0808 801 0331 (Mon–Fri)National Domestic Violence Helpline (run by Refuge)
www.refuge.org.uk
Tel: 0808 2000 247National Stalking Helpline
www.suzylamplugh.org
Tel: 0808 8020300NSPCC (children at risk)
www.nspcc.org.uk
Tel: 0808 800 5000;
confidential advice and support for those aged 18 and under,
Tel: 0800 1111
Help & Support Organisations
UK
Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline
www.dsahelpline.org
Tel: 0808 802 1414
Scotland
Scotland’s Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline
www.sdafmh.org.uk/en/
Tel: 0800 027 1234
Live Fear Free Helpline (providing help and advice about violence against women, domestic abuse and sexual abuse)
www.gov.wales/live-fear-free
Tel: 0808 80 10 800
Wales
Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline
www.dsahelpline.org
Tel: 0808 802 1414
Ireland
Legal advice, separation,
divorce/child contact,
other help and support organisations
Advicenow (family difficulties/info and support)
www.advicenow.org.ukCitizens Advice (specialist advisors)
www.citizensadvice.org.ukCoercive control and the law
www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/controlling-or- coercive-behaviour-intimate-or-family-relationshipDivorce Aid (divorce-related info and advice)
www.divorceaid.co.ukFamily Lives (all aspects of family life)
www.familylives.org.ukGingerbread (lone parents and their children)
www.gingerbread.org.ukGovernment guidance on domestic violence and abuse
www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-violence-and-abuse
Law Centres Network (free legal advice)
www.lawcentres.org.ukLegal aid
www.gov.uk/legal-aidLinks Group (pet fostering/domestic abuse)
www.thelinksgroup.org.ukMATCHmothers (mothers apart from their children)
www.matchmothers.orgNational Family Mediation (help for families separating or divorcing)
www.nfm.org.ukOnly Mums and Dads (for single mothers and single fathers)
www.onlymumsanddads.orgSingleParents (separation and/or divorce)
www.singleparents.org.ukTurn2us (national charity aiming to end financial insecurity in the UK)
www.turn2us.org.uk
In an emergency
In the UK, if you are in immediate danger always call 999. You can call 101 in a non-emergency or attend a police station in person to report an incident.
All UK police websites are listed through the UK Police Service Portal at www.police.uk or you can report a crime via the confidential online form.
If you have a hearing or speech impairment, use the textphone service 18000 or text on 999 if you’ve pre-registered with the emergency SMS service.
The Silent Solution
If you’re in an emergency and need police help, but are scared to make a noise or can’t speak, the Silent Solution enables you, by calling 999 from a mobile, to inform police you have a genuine emergency.
1. Dial 999.
2. Listen to the questions from the operator.
3. Respond by coughing or tapping your device if you can.
4. If prompted, press 55 to let the operator know it’s a genuine emergency, and you’ll be put through to police.
MyNARA (personal recovery guide) www.mynara.app/road-torecovery
The MyNARA app has a free version that enables victims and survivors to take steps towards reclaiming their lives, with practical guidance and the assurance that they are not alone on their journey.
NO MORE Global Directory (directory listing global domestic violence hotlines and services) www.nomoredirectory.org
Help & Support Organisations
Global
Aks Foundation (support for victims of abuse)
https://aksfoundation.org
Tel: +91 8793 088 814
India
Swayam (help and advice for women and children facing violence)
https://swayam.info
Tel: +91 98307 72814
If you are in immediate danger, call 000
1800RESPECT service (national counselling service for domestic, family and sexual violence, including psychological abuse)
www.1800respect.org.au/violence-and-abuse/psychologicalabuse
Tel: 1800 737 732Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander people can call
13 YARN (1392 76) for confidential support.Healthdirect helpline (known as NURSE-ON-CALL in Victoria)
Tel: 1800 022 222. A registered nurse is available to speak with you 24 hours a dayFamily Relationship Advice Line
Tel: 1800 050 321
Australia
Kids Helpline
Tel: 1800 55 1800Lifeline for crisis support
Tel: 13 11 14Local mental health services, call Medicare Mental Health
Tel: 1800 595 212National Disability Abuse and Neglect Hotline
Tel: 1800 880 052QLife for LGBTIQA+SB people who may be experiencing family and domestic violence www.qlife.org.au
Tel: 1800 184 527Relationships Australia www.relationships.org.au
Tel: 1300 364 277
If you are in immediate danger, call 111 and ask for the police
AreYouOK Helpline
Tel: 0800 456 450Elder Abuse Response Service
www.officeforseniors.govt.nz/our-work/ raising-awareness-of-elder-abuse/elder-abuse-response-service
Tel: 0800 32 668 65
New Zealand
Shine NZ (family violence support, for Central and Northern Auckland only)
https://2shine.org.nz
Tel: 0508 744 633Women’s Refuge Crisisline
www.womensrefuge.org.nz
Tel: 0800 733 843Youthline
www.youthline.co.nz/get-help/helpline
Tel: 0800 376 633
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 9-1-1.
If your area does not have a 9-1-1 service, call your local police emergency number
Hope for Wellness Helpline (available 24/7 to all Indigenous people across Canada)
www.hopeforwellness.ca
Tel: 1-855-242-3310iHeal (free app for Canadian women who have experienced abuse from a current or past partner to find personalised ways to stay safe and be well)
https://ihealapp.ca
Canada
Kids Help Phone
www.kidshelpphone.ca/need-help-now-text-us
Tel: 1-800-668-6868 or text ‘CONNECT’ to 686868National Domestic Violence Hotline
Tel: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or text ‘START’ to 88788ShelterSafe.ca (online resource for women and their children seeking safety from violence and abuse)
www.sheltersafe.ca/get-helpVictim Services Directory (find help in your local area)
www.justice. gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/victims-victimes/vsd-rsv/agencies-agences.aspx
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline (24/7 information, support and advocacy for young people between the ages of thirteen and twenty-six who have questions or concerns about their romantic relationships)
www.loveisrespect.org
Tel: 1.866.331.9474Office on Violence Against Women, US Department of Justice (information on all 51 states) www.justice.gov/ovw/resources-forsurvivors#mt
Riverside Community Care (Massachusetts)
www.riversidecc.orgSalvation Army
www.salvationarmyusa.org/domestic-violenceStrongHearts (anonymous support and advocacy to Native American and Alaska Natives impacted by domestic and sexual violence)
www.strongheartshelpline.org
Tel: 1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483)Trevor Project (24/7 crisis care for LGBTQ+ young people)
www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help
Tel: 1-866-488-7386 or text ‘START’ to 678- 678VictimConnect (referral helpline where crime victims can learn about their rights and options confidentially and compassionately)
www.victimconnect.orgWomensLaw.org (plain-language legal information for victims of abuse) www.womenslaw.org
If you are in immediate danger call 911
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
www.988lifeline.org
Tel: 988Casa Pinellas (Community Action Stops Abuse, serving Pinellas and Marion Counties in Florida)
www.casapinellas.org
Tel: (727) 895-4912Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline
Tel: 1-800-4-A-Child or 1-800-422-4453Crisis Text Line
Text: 741741Domestic Shelters (mobile searchable directory of domestic violence programmes and shelters in the USA and Canada)
www.domesticshelters.orgNarcissistic Abuse Survivors
www.narcissisticabusesurvivors.orgNational Domestic Violence Hotline
www.thehotline.org/resources/narcissism-and- abuse
Tel: 800-799-SAFE (1-800-799-7233) or text ‘START’ to 88788National Sexual Assault Helpline
https://hotline.rainn.org/online
Tel: 1-800-656 4673